People respond differently to the Different situations, like crisis, anger, emotional trauma. During tough times, it is natural to be sad and frustrated about death of a loved one, being diagnosed, trauma, natural disasters or any negative events. Some people become angry, and even turn that anger towards God and then when they have no one to blame they start blaming Allah SWT. following script would give you a couple of tips to reduce anger and how to manage frustration in such circumstances.

Yes, it is frustrating when you don’t have all the answers.The relationship with God that you used to enjoy does not seem comforting anymore.  You feel betrayed. You stop praying. You feel like your belief has shattered. Whether you are praying to Allah or not, it does not seem to have any difference.

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Stuck in trouble? Depression? be Patient!

yes, this reaction is so obvious, but then stop thinking just for a second and read it, with an open heart, thinking that one single human being cannot disappoint you or (Naudubillah) Lie to you, yes He is one and only Prophet SAW.

 

He (SAW) Said”O Messenger of Allāh, which of the people are the most sorely tested?” He said: “The Prophets, then those similar, then those similar. A man will be tested in accordance with his level of faith. If his faith is strong, he will be tested more severely, and if his faith is weak, he will be tested in accordance with his faith. Calamity will keep befalling a person until he walks on the earth with no sin on him”

 Please Think. He, the prophet SAW said even that if he is testing you frequently he loves you dearly. 

If you are struggling with this anger, you are not alone. Many people experience similar struggles. Rather than pulling away or trying to cover up the negative feelings, dealing with the issue in an open and honest way is more helpful in the long term. However, if you have trouble minimizing the anger, you may need to seek help. Research has shown that anger towards God is associated with poor adjustment to bereavement, particularly when the anger remained unresolved over a year. In addition, all these may lead to depression, withdrawal, and a dangerous drop in religious faith.

Below is some advice that might be useful in dealing with this matter, these tips to reduce anger will surely help you out in managing the disappointment you face in hard times :

1. Be honest to yourself!

The first part of healing is admitting that you have a problem. Admit that you are angry if even you feel ashamed and guilty by it. We can never fix the annoying aspects of our characteristics if we do not acknowledge the problem.

2. Crush the pride and be humble

 Admit that you are powerless, not everything is manageable and there are times when you need to give up being in control. The trial that you are facing is not an indicator that Allah’s plan is a mistake, but rather it is the greatest evidence that Allah is the one at work, not you!

But to Allah belongs the last (Hereafter) and the first (the world).” (Sūrat’l-Najm: 24-25)

3. Make Dua, even if you don’t want to.

This point is the most important one, what ever the case might be, never stop seeking help from ALLAH. Explain your matter to ALLAH, tell HIM that you are getting disappointed, tell HIM that you are loosing hope and faith !!!
With that being said, keep praying and maintaining a religious environment even when you do not feel like it. Do not be arrogant. Even when you are angry, force yourself to turn back to Allah

“O my Lord! Verily, I am needy to whatever good that you send down to me.” (Sūrat’l-Qaṣaṣ: 24)

Verily, I only complain of my grief and sorrow to Allāh!” (Sūrat’l-Yūsuf: 86)

4. Know your purpose of worship

Keep in mind that we don’t become religious and righteous to be immune from calamities. Our obedience to Allah is not a bribe for Him to give us something in return or spare us from trials.

“There are among men some who serve Allah, as it were, on the verge: if good befalls them, they are, therewith, well content; but if a trial comes to them, they turn on their faces: they lose both this world and the Hereafter. That is the evident loss. (Sūrat’l- Ḥajj: 11) “

5. Try to Move on

 Transforming the anger into compassion and contentment is an empowerment. Trials are meant to increase our resilience, and a strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than a weak believer, even though there is goodness in both.

 

So Life is beyond the Law of Attraction. Allah has already written our story and the plots in our lives. But that does not mean we will like it. That is why believe is extremely vital to hold on to.

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